There is a fine line between discussions and arguing...
The love for truth and the values and role of the arguments set the scene...
I cannot argue with my wife in any trivial day to day mundane matter... She is a very wise and intelligent woman and she is never "wrong" really...i dont remember being able to really fault her save on a unique subject, but she was too innocent and honest in a way to imagine such wrong doing possible by the corporate system... Then it is the only times she was wrong in his life for me...It was about the last crisis ...But i will not go further here...
She could had been be a psychologist or a philosopher, an artist , because she was gifted, if she was loving cerebral matter more... She is more pragmatic and on the point in any discussion than everybody i ever meet... Discussion with her are rational and to the point and with no back intention ( conscious one ) ...She will never discuss here with people about acoustics and gear as i did ... She "argued" with someone perhaps one time in his life on internet about a moral fundamental issue...Never again...
She stay silent ...Most of the times...
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I marry her the day i seduced her by lending to her one TOP books in S.-F. after the others after 5 masterpieces she invited me to a coffe and as intended by me to give me back the books ( i was devilish here)... Then i make his university philosophical essay because she hate writing philosophical essays and she wait too late , and at the end she was pleased by the final notation she received ...She was interrogated one hour to investigate a book plagiarism case because the text as it was written for the teacher could not correspond to his level... Because she was more than lazy, i briefed her before the official interrogation, one hour about it and she passed the inbvestigation in answering the teacher and investigative group of teachers... It was my best notation too at the conclusion ... She received the highest note..😊
i wrote the 25 pages text in two hours, she corrected it and submit it... But she ask me for a short course on the matter... it was about history and consciousness phases manifestations in a university masters degree..
We marry after ...😉 It was 50 years ago...
Some people just like to argue. What are you going to do? I’ve encouraged my wife to join in on these discussions many times but she says she just prefers to argue with me 🙃