Hey @ajones82, sounds like you have the same problem that I had in this thread:
https://forum.audiogon.com/discussions/question-about-cary-audio-slp-05-preamp
Check out my solution. I use a combination of this emotive module with a IR controllable AC Socket. Somehow I can't find the IR controlled AC Socket in eBay anymore, but I found this:
https://inclusiveinc.org/products/infrared-ecu-110v-ac-wall-outlet-controller-with-remote
It seems to do the same thing.
In my case, it works perfectly. Hope this works for you.
Cheers!