Hi OP,
I haven’t had the Kanta’s but I have older Focal Towers 816V’s that I now use as my surround sound speakers, I have the 800v center.
I had the Electra 1028BE’s which prior to Focal revamping their line up was the trickle down speaker that had the Woofers / Tweeters found in their top line options.
I struggled with what you are right now. Highs were very pronounced, could be eerily smooth with the right recording but fatiguing with most. Mid’s lacked, bass was there, deep, fast, punchy. You’ll find Focal’s tend to lean toward the highs, fall into the more analytical camp. They are also tougher to drive, especially if you want to get the most out of them, a better blend of Mid range to go with the Highs and lower region bass. If they are slightly bright to you but you really love the sound signature, room treatment and changing your Amp will do the trick. If you are further away from loving the sound signature than feeling like a few small tweaks will do the trick you’ll likely need to change your speakers. I spent a lot of time and money chasing the right Pre / Amp / DAC combo and I still moved on from the Electra’a which many will hail as a tremendous speaker in the Focal line, blending in their top tier materials into a more affordable overall package. Did I improve the performance of the speakers, mainly through amplification changes, absolutely, did it change the tweeter / tuning of the speakers being fatiguing, nope.
If you are sure you want to keep the speakers, they’ll need amplification that isn’t all about Watts but impedance / handling difficult swings, loads. Brands like Pass, Parasound, Coda, Music Fidelity, Mac, Krell, Hegel. Naim is also often paired as they are owned by the same parent company. You can find Amps today that won’t heat your room. If you want to keep costs down, look for used Integrated units, Parasound Hint 6, Music Fidelity, a little pricier but a step up amplification / Pre wise, Coda, and the latest Krell would be fantastic fit, you can get it with a DAC. You could also go all in one streamer, DAC Pre / Amp with Naim or Hegel, the Hegel 390 would be a great all in 1 solution.
Amplification will make the biggest difference in performance followed by Room Treatment. I tried those plus Room Correction andEQ’d things via Roon, still moved on. A great recording that focused on vocals, I have never heard a speaker speak to me like the Electra’s with their BE Tweeters and I’ve cycled through some speakers, but I only loved them 10 % of the time as when I moved onto poorer recordings, rock and other genres they were fatiguing.
So, I’ve lived what you are going through, you can warm them up, bring the mids more into the equation but that won’t change the highs, if they are really fatiguing now, that fatigue will still be there to a lower degree but there. Best advice I got that I ignore for too long was only your ears matter, if the sound signature isn’t for you on a particular speaker you won’t be able gear or room treatment your way out of it.