The problem is not listening to the sound as such , the problem is the fetichist misplaced idea that the sound balance or unbalanced experience comes from each gear pieces , then criticizing a component as being in need to be upgrade at higher cost ... Most of the times the upgrade is not needed...
The balance and unbalanced experience very often dont come from a lack of synergy between parts , which is possible for sure and not rare , but result from a not well embedded system in the room ...
i listen the sound from my system always but i hear always music not sound ...Because all parts are synergetical and well embedded together electrically , mechanically and especially acoustically ... Then if listening is a conscious act, hearing is not a conscious act at all , anyway the more i consciously intend to listen the sound , the more i hear the music and nothing else which is called immersiveness experience ...
Why ? because in a balanced system the sound dont exist out of the music and serve it ... In an unbalanced system some frequencies range , some lack in the transients, some absence of dynamic or some excess ,etc, impose the same sound haunting ghost which hide the recording trade-off choices of any album nevermind the musical choices ...