I've noticed many more sellers insisting on F&F, but I wouldn't say it's the new standard. Dunno if it's because of the tax issue or he's worried about buyer claims. Of course it allows the seller to be a little shady also.
If he wants to use F&F, power to him. You both have choices. However, if PP wants to be a D1ck, they can remove the F&F function from an account
Insurance seems to have gotten more and more expensive, but I would think he'd
at least give the buyer the option to pay for it. Heck, even getting a signature on delivery cost 6 bucks