I always buy used unless no used available, even then I would wait a while, having hifisearch show me that item or category 'first shown, new first'. check every am, bang: strike like a viper.
I am confident in my skills to evaluate the seller and item and money movement, and so far have not been disappointed. a few things have gone wrong (primarily bad packaging), all resolved, or refunded.
Worried about seller's packing skills, or local pickup only: I use UPS Pack and Ship, seller simply drops unpacked item nearby in your name, walks away. You make your own arrangements with UPS, you pay UPS directly, No need to buy insurance: UPS is responsible for any damage which is unlikely.
If you really want something, cannot find an open box (which get maker's full warranty), or 'safe' used, gotta pay the price. Then I think: "will I regret it? will I regret not getting it?"