I hate to say it but you probably don't belong here. For the first thing your stereo setup was WAY TO NEAT Where are the jumble of wires the size of fire hoses strewn all over the house? Where are the special power plugs "required" to provide pristine electricity to your components? Where are the snarky responses to your choices in music?
Look at who's here and who's not. I actually met with Chuck "Millercarbon" at his house for an extended listening sessions. I mean I was there all day. He fed me, talked music with me and actually demonstrated the sound difference power cables made. He took his speaker wires off of the lifters while the song was playing so I could and did hear the affect they had on the overall sound. He hosted a meet with whole bunch of other hobbyists and we spent the day totally immersed in the hobby. If he doesn't "belong here" who does?
Like Chuck you appear to be willing to enjoy your system and wish to talk about it. I'm not sure that kind of talk is appreciated here so yeah maybe you don't belong. As for being an AudioPhile If you break the word into it's components
Audio: As pertaining to sound
Phile: An affinity for something
It looks to me that you fit the description but apparently that doesn't mean you should be a part of this forum.
Cheers and you're doing better than me as I had to look up who Stuart Smiley was.