I can believe it never made it out of country. I knew someone, back in the day, who had an arrangement with some RoadWay truck drivers who'd stop by his house and let him peruse the contents and take what he wanted in exchange for drugs for the drivers. A truly despicable person.
I'd also alert the shipping company you used and file a claim with them from your lawyer, just to see how they react. Hope you have a happy ending to this filthy affair.
All the best,
Nonoise