Not all of the issue is the AVR, some of it is the sound engineering on the movie. I run into this a lot. Some movies have a perfect balance between speech and sound, others do not.
I have a Denon that is supposed to be their "best" AVR for sound (it sounds not-great, but not terrible with music). It has a buttons on the remote to change between movie, game, etc, and when you press a button it brings up a menu so you can choose between different type of Dolby and other interpreters. I just try to use those to get a sound that works for each film, and if that fails there is another button that lets me boost the center.
The last thing is what others have been saying, your amp may not be up to the task of driving your speakers. In my case, my AVR has a line out that I run to my preamp and direct to my monoblocks. The limiting factor of an AVR's output is the power supply, if you look closely at the power ratings of your AVR, you will see it goes down the more speakers you add, de-rate their claimed output by 30% to 50% and you will be in the right ball park. I would suggest no less than 150 watts per channel with all 5 (or 7) channels being driven for those speakers if you want good "life" in your movies.