Welcome to the Club!
I have tried to like Jazz for decades, as well, including a dozen deliberate weeks of "maybe this time", "maybe this group". During the journey, I have found a few very good performers, but mostly duds. Listening to 'giants' (Monk, Coltrane, Davis, etc.) was, mostly, painful. I wish I could have these hours back...
With that perspective - I have some recommendations of Jazz performances that I truly enjoy and may be unique.
Getz/Jocbin
Boots Randolf
Henry James
Lenny Marcus - great Jazz transcriptions of Beethoven, plus some new pieces
Benny Goodman
Tommy & Jimmy Dorsey
Most of the Windham Hill artists - Montreux, Barbra Higbe, Daryl Anger, Michael Manring, Alex de Grassi, some Shadowfax, etc.
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