I often notice that people who have open reel decks and/or tube equipment are nicest

Exactly, that's what I thought. They are often true "vintage" audiophiles with decades of dedication and experience. And they know what good sound is and how to achieve it.

If you don't have a good resource for info , tubes and RTRs can be challenging.   I always try to give good advice/ info when possible.  

Indeed, they are challenging but so rewarding.

Real men use tubes. 

Throw out the hardware
Let's do it right