didn’t like Brimar 12AX7 in the phono and thought that 12AU7 would not be too different, and Sylvania is thought to be bright by some.
Sure - the sonic traits of one make/vintage of 12AX7 generally carry over to the corresponding 12AU7. Sylvania tubes seemed to change a lot from the 60s onwards. Before 1960s: nice clean airy sound, great dynamics, with a beautiful midrange that was romatic and organic while not so thick & warm as Mullard. Afterwards - a more bright and solid-state like sound. Ending with Philips ECG tubes of the 1980s (ugh). The later tubes are certainly serviceable, and even good in some roles, but older Sylvanias with black plates are generally much more desirable and sound good almost anywhere. You might think of older Sylvanias as (sort of) like USA’s Siemens.
XF2's are excellent. I had a quad but they were well worn when I acquired them. They were perhaps a bit more articulate than XF3 and XF4, but don't sleep on the latter - it's far easier to score a really nice quad of those, with a lot of life left.