@inna I wouldn't say that I recommend choosing an amp that is easy on tubes so much as I recommend against an amp that is hard on tubes. How do you know which is which?
I'd say avoid an amp that gets more power than normally attributed to that tube--unless I needed that power and was willing to buy tubes. And I'm fine with that. Personally I don't think tubes are expensive compared to the rest of the audio equipment we all have to purchase. I buy tubes when I don't need them. A nice pair of Hytron 801As showed up yesterday.
There is a trend now to make higher power tube amps to drive lower sensitivity speakers. I like higher sensitivity speakers but if you're married to your 92-95dB speakers and want to drive them with a tube amp, you need more power. So they are making more push pull, parallel SET, and High power SETs with the higher output tubes. if you buy some of these, recognize you'll have to replace tubes more often. (not saying push pull amps are hard on tubes, unless designed that way).
If I'm looking at a 300B SET and the OEM says 8 wpc, and 300b's generally do 6 wpc, I'm going to wonder about tube life. (or else the marketing talk is exaggerating and it really is a 6 wpc amp).
I've found that if you go with an amp builder with a lot of experience and knowledge, they are likely to design their amps conservatively. And if you call Aric or Apollo and order and amp, if you tell them to use conservative parameters to promote long tube life, I'm sure they can do that.
jerry