wear is inevitable and so gradual it is best to make an estimate of hours played, and mail it to a professional for evaluation prior to the potential of groove damage.
I bought a usb digital microscope, figured out how to 'see' with it, but I have no confidence in making decisions with it.
answer for OP: now,
1st you need confidence your overhang/2 null points/azimuth/vta alignments and tracking force/anti-skate settings have been correct, periodically checked, properly maintained.
note: re-builders and re-tippers say this is not typical, the majority they inspect have uneven wear (likely due to incorrect anti-skate forces). Those are sent in by US!
2nd, you need some record or guesstimate of hours played
3. you have been keeping the LP, stylus tip, cantilever shaft/suspension clean (vital to achieve long life).
4. what you heard/remember/still hear or don't hear with very familiar content.
Predictions of average life depend on the stylus shape's, advanced shapes far exceed elliptical and are well worth the higher cost
I check any advanced stylus that hasn't revealed wear at 1,000 hours, expecting to find it's ok, not causing damage, but smart to get a new stylus tip.
AudioTechnica; Soundsmith; others _______????? (tell us your experiences) have rebuild/exchange programs, I got a half price exchange from AT
VAS can retip, or new cantilever with tip, or complete re-build CERTAIN models, not all. I send Steve links to used cartridges I am considering, he gives me pre-purchase advice
He put an advanced cantilever/tip on a MC AT33PTG/II Mono Body I bought
He put an advanced cantilever/tip on a MM Shure 97xe, keeping the OEM damped brush. Happily it also fits my MM V15Vxmr body,
JICO sells replacement parts for MM cartridges, I bought their SAS on Boron for my V15Vxmr body, and if I ever wear out the NOS OEM Beryllium/MR I just bought in a V15V-P, they have an SAS/Boron that fits that body. (I'll use that advanced P mount via a 1/2" adapter)
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IF you are not inclined to mount/align your own cartridges, I encourage buying a high end MM Cartridge, with advanced cantilever material and stylus shape that is simply replaceable (shure's pull out the front/AT's pull off the bottom), they auto-position. Thus you get the cartridge setup once, then you renew the auto-positioning stylus yourself, every 1,000 hrs is my advice.