I went with F12SE Rythmiks because of the ability to dial them in variably (rather than 0 or 180, as the case is with REL subs) to a pretty tricky room. I got a pair. Love them. I have an older REL, too, and it is my third sub. The subs are coordinated using MiniDSP (link is about subwoofer integration).
Again, REL has a huge fan-boy contingent but not many models have variable phase. REL has 0/180, mostly.
A simple 0/180 switch allows for a complete reversal of the subwoofer’s polarity, effectively inverting the signal. But variable phase control on a subwoofer allows you to fine-tune the bass output to blend seamlessly with your main speakers, maximizing bass response and avoiding cancellations at the crossover frequency.