I used this method that came from Focal with good results. Might be worth a try.
From Focal:
Optimisation For perfectionists, here is a formula for optimal positioning: If A is the distance from the centre of the woofer to the nearest floor or wall, B is the distance to the next closest floor or wall, and C is the greatest distance (A < B < C), the equation B2 = AC defines the ideal loudspeaker position. • Example: If the centre of the woofer is 20" (50cm) away from the rear wall (A) and 24" (60cm) above the floor (B), then the side wall will be ideally 28" (72cm) away [C = B2 ⁄ A = 28" (72cm)] (fig. D)
Focal goes on to say:
If the sound is harsh, aggressive: the acoustics of your listening room are probably too reverberant. Consider using sound absorbing materials (carpets, upholstered furniture, tapestries, curtains, etc.) and sound-reflecting materials (furniture) to absorb or diffuse resonance