Which amp with Wilson watt puppy 8

You do not need a new amp. The JR is a very capable and good sounding amp, no matter how old it is, but as you've been blowing drive units, that may be the whole cause of your 'problem'. The JR will easily drive the WP to loud levels (btw, you've been asked a few times about your hearing - do you have hearing issues?). As somone else has said - if blowing tweeters, it's usually a clipping amp issue - it DOES NOT mean the amp is too powerful - but it may mean the amp is faulty, given your house power issues. If you keep on blowing tweeters, you cannot blame SF for not wanting to continue to supply them to you if it's your own fault that they're blowing.

You also don't mention the size of your room, as a very large room will make any amp work harder, and 'L' shaped room are awful for sound stage creation.

Finally - keep your kids away from your system and get them their own.

Lots of good advice here. You definitely should replace the integrated amp, soon if it is blowing speakers, and consider separates. Five kids, stick with solid state for now. Having separates will allow you to tune your sound a bit going forward by trying some different preamps. Look for something that offers a touch of warmth to take the edge off of the highs. Pass gear is a good and reliable place to start.

OP,

Thank you for all of your additional information, But with that, I am still of the opinion that there is something wrong with your electronics. The volume of any of my systems in the last fifty years at 60 - 80% would have been deafening. I mean plates on the wall rattling.... glasses vibrating off the table... I am exaggerating a bit. But walking by the speakers would be a hearing hazard.

Use your iPhone and a SPL meter app, and take some measure ments from a meter in front of the speakers and from the seated position in front of the speakers. This would give us some metrics. 

I am looking @kofibaffour ’s advice who advised getting a mini dsp mic and going for tests. I will come back with that. 

Regarding placements and room config, this is an extract of WA’s manual. 
In many cases, L-shaped rooms (See Figure 2) offer the best environment for speaker setup. Ideally, speakers should be set up along the primary (longest) leg of the room.

They should fire from the end of the leg (short wall) toward the L, or they should be along the longest wall. In this way, both speakers are firing the same distance to the back wall. The asymmetry of the walls in L-shaped rooms resists the buildup of standing waves (see Figure 2). Wilson Audio Specialties P 18

i tried yesterday to call Jeff Rowland, and actually the man himself come’s in every day, but want yet present, so I will try to reach him today to see if I can get any advise from them.  

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Move to Des Moines.

DeKay