Re “getting it”:
No one is suggesting that one has to like music that one is trying to “get”. This music is an artist’s expression. It belongs to the artist. The listener is a “guest”. Liking it can be considered secondary. Again, humility. However, if a listener wants to truly understand the full range and scope of a creative artist’s musical vision and evolution, he would do well to at least take it in and perhaps simply tolerate it with a listening or two. Personally, I find great value in that. The trick is to not waste time with the imposters.
Not an imposter. Check out the lineup. Could so many greats be full of s#!t? Unlikely: