So what is better? The phono stage that really lets you hear everything but might be a bit analytical. Or the phono stage that has more of own musicality to it but does add colouration.What you describe many of us ask ourselves. In this case the characteristics in the comparison that you ask us to help you determine which is better comes down to personal preference. What pleases you more when listening? Some of use prefer neutrality and components that deliver that sound are "better" in our opinion. Others prefer the distortions that produce coloration and still others like a combination of the two mixing and matching components accordingly.
Mordante
Based on your question only you can truly answer it. The rest of us just have an opinion. My opinion, go for neutrality. Just to throw a wrench in it, just because something is neutral doesn't mean it is analytical.