What do you do when the kids come along?

I agree with most of the aspects presented in this forum -- I am going through this now, and the worst part is turning the music off at night -- That is when everyone wakes up.

During the first months with children, the music actually helps both the parent and the child. My kids both had different musical tastes detectable at a couple of months old.

Now that the kids are older, some of the kids music gets played on the system.... Actually, some of the kids disks have really good recording quality...

One some good rules are the hands-off approach on the gear, food only at the kitchen table, and minimizing the damage opportunities for both the equipment and the kids...

If it is important to you, make sure you have your rules communicated and agreed before marriage and kids, otherwise divorce or compromise will surely follow..

I understand that babies learn their parent's voices
while still in the womb. If you are playing music
now, chances are the baby will take to it like mother's
milk.

I agree with hdm. I have 2 boys 5 and 8. I never stopped the music when they went to bed and they both sleep whether it is on or not. My wife and I also taught them what was off limits, which they both learned before they were able to walk. We have never had a problem with them handling anything including the turntable. My 8 year old is now able to run the system without me worrying (except the turntable). We found the key is to be consistant with the kids on your rules and don't compromise.

I have four kids ages 11, 14, 17, 19. I have been an audiophile for many years.
A) Get a sturdy and high stand. It wasn't my kids (of course) that presented a problem, it was their little friends that posed the greatest danger.
B) Select speakers that are fingerprint and finger-poking friendly. Watch out for speakers on tall flimsy stands.
C) Train them very early. Like you do when they're around a hot stove, lawn mower or swimming pool.
D) As they grow older, teach them to listen and enjoy.
E) As they grow, pass down older equipment. It presents a great excuse to upgrade!

At my age I don't see kids anytime soon!! Though I think most of what was said here sounds familiar ;) I have to Girlfriend proof my system which I think is enough trouble!

Bwyoung-Your oldest is only a year younger then me!!