How does one get off the merry-go-round?

Great post, Sailcappy. Thanks for sharing your cautionary tale and baring your soul. I can certainly relate to just about everything in your story.

One part that really caught my attention was Lyric's refusal to bring in amp from other rooms in the store to try with your intended new speakers. If I'm going to spend $12K on a pair of speakers from a dealer, I damn well expect them to let me listen with amps from elsewhere in their store.

There should be a thread where all frustrated audiophiles get to bare their soul. That could provide some interesting reads. Maybe this thread is the one?

Sailcrappy,

I drive a 1996 Toyota 4Runner.

My wife drives a 2004 Toyota Avalon.

Recently, we had to replace the key for the Avalon. Cost: about $300. No fooling!

Why? The car has to be reprogrammed for the new key to work.

The key essentially opens and closes the doors and turn the ignition just like the $2.00 key for my 4Runner. But I suppose the computer part makes it do this better somehow. All for only $300.

TO me this is a perfect case of misguided technology. Sometimes, simpler is better. But not if you want to make money off car parts.

I love the Avalon otherwise. It's a great car with a great drive. My 4Runner has its unique charms also.

So not sure exactly how this relates to your story but there you have it.

Quite a good post Sailcappy! I can't recall all the details of the merry-go-round I've had.

Sailcappy,

FWIW, one thing that can help somewhat that I do not see mentioned in your story, is learning how to leverage component specifications into the buying decision. This is the only way to inject anything objective into the complex decision making process involved with getting one's "ultimate sound". Some specs are useful, some are not. But they are often the only thing concrete you can go by when trying to decide what components might work best with others.