I still maintain that hi fi equipment is only a tool, let the music move you and (should?) be you're focus.
I'd agree that the system is merely a tool. What separates it from the typical 'tool' is in the other half of your statement. Absolutely, we are all doing this to bring us closer to the music that moves us. It seems like the highest accomplishment of this though is when the 'tool' disappears altogether and you become aware only of the music as a 'presence'. Seems like with more conventional 'tools' we are more conscious of the task at hand and how well or poorly the tool aids one in accomplishing the task. Not sure what I'm saying here...just a rambling thought I suppose.
Marco