Timf,
I'm not going to list the specifics of my handicap in a public forum. However, I will tell you that I'm pretty much confined to my home. Except for the occasional doctors visit and grocery shopping/errands on Mondays, I don't leave the house. My wife works long hours and I try not to monopolize her free time by having her run me around. In addition, she just doesn't like to drive, which rules out long trips. So, this pretty much makes me a prisoner in my own home six days a week. It's gotten so bad that I actually get excited on grocery day.
Anyway, not being able to make it to dealers showrooms to audition and purchase products has really limited my selection of gear. I am forced to do the majority of my shopping via the internet. So much so, that I keep beverages and snacks on hand for the UPS/FEDEX/USPS people. However, the majority of "hi-end" manufacturers refuse to ship product without making at least one visit to the closest dealer. Well, unless that dealer is no more than 25 miles away, it just isn't going to happen. I've pleaded and begged. Assured them that I wanted the product, would not return it, and understood the risks involved to no avail. If I'm willing to fax them a copy of my handicap ID and pay the asking price and shipping, then whats the problem? It's either we do business this we, or I go to the next guy.
I'll give you an example-
Last year I was in the market for a new pair of speakers that I heard at the HiFi show. I was impressed with the sound even under show conditions. So, I called up the closest dealer and tried to buy a pair. He informed me that the manufacturers policy prohibits shipping the product and he could loose his franchise. Understood, so I called the manufacturer, and explained my situation. They informed me that they were sorry, but they couldn't accommodate me. So, I got on the phone and started calling every dealer working my way out in an expanding circle. Finally, after about 12-15 calls, I came across a dealer that just happened to be handicapped himself. He agreed to sell me the speakers if I faxed him a copy of my ID and a letter from my doctor. Fifteen minutes later the sale ($8000) was complete. Over the last year or so, I have spent about $15000 with this dealer who I have never met in person, and who I don't even know what he looks like.
So, my message to "hi-end" manufacturers is "If a customer has mitigating circumstances, which preclude them from completing a sale in person, then follow the law and accommodate them." After all, there are two reasons we buy these expensive toys: superior performance and superior customer service. And, at the prices we are paying, we deserve both.
Sorry about the long rant....