Wrong speakers

Rtilden
I take your advice seriously as well as the others to answer those other questions
Room size is about 20 by 25
The music is classical, orchestral, piano, lute , and violin sonatas
Also, folk , acidfolk especially , other as well but mostly those two genres
Im very proud of acidfolk BTW, its not listened to enough
Cant really do the positioning thing now , so require speakers that aren't
so dependent on the perfect seating position
Likely will buy so sound enhancing stuff as it appears from the posts on threads that it can make quite a big difference
Also, the speakers listed by me, are just some examples of ones that seem highly respected here , which are praised for their ability to reproduce a live experience guess that is my goal

Focal profile 928 or 918 might be the ticket if you can find a pair.

Acidfolk:
Good info. Ceiling height is important to know, as the volume can be drastically different in an 8' as compared to a 16' cathedral ceiling. Big volumes require a lot from both speakers and electronics. Only music type that has me concerned for you is orchestral. I like the ability to fill the room with sound, and in my large room, it takes a big amp with large speakers to make large scale symphonies sound good. Piano can also be concerning, but to a lesser degree, as good piano done right requires balls too, especially in low-mids and bass regions. Hope this helps.

I did the same thing when I first entered the audiophile world. I locked up an ARC vs-110 amp, blue circle pre, and then moseyed around the speaker world before finding the Maggie 3.6r. It was a circuitous route, but it worked out. Thus time, tho, I started with reference 3a de capos and found the LSA Statement integrated to be a perfect fit.

Anyhow, you also might try Triangle speakers. Tho you really can't go wrong with MBL or even Vandersteens.

If you are bummed by Theils treble with your SS output stage precision amp, I strongly recommend speakers with a very sweet "musical" top end. I own Focal 936s and would say they are too clinical for you but there is a pair on sale right now pretty cheap. The speaker I would advise you to get are Nolas. The whole line is targeted towards people who like rich tone and sweet treble. I don't own them but have heard them and thought about it quite seriously. Read a few reviews to get an idea.
It took me several years to get the right amp and speaker combination, so take it easy and be prepared, for some trial and error. That is what has happened to the industry for all the reasons you spelled out about being unable to audition gear.