I have heard most of the speakers on the market. I've recently changed some things in my own system. I have Proac SuperTowers that I'm selling and I can PROMISE you that it's not in your head. My speakers disappear as good as most out there. It's about set up and your room too. Some speakers do some things right, but never disappear. I changed to a DAC and Niagara balanced cables into my Ayre integrated and the sound is MUCH wider and deeper than it's ever been and I have run NAD integrated (also selling off) and Quicksilver Silver Mono's what stage and image as good as most tubes out there (again selling, lol) and I didn't expect my new system to be as 'large' as the tube stuff, but I was wrong. That's not in my head (actually it really is in our heads).
Go listen at a brick and mortar store and you'll hear the differences.
Go listen at a brick and mortar store and you'll hear the differences.