If she isn't into the gear, is she into the music?

I had a GF into music, she loved live performances and such. Sadly the relationship ended after 2 years.

I guess I'm luckier than some--I had my system as a permanent fixture and in my own house before I brought my wife in, so she accepts this is the way I am, and that music listening is my pastime. She does like a lot of my music, or so she sez. But yeah, she is mostly concerned with social media and talking to friends, while I sit and groove--way down deep, more like a meditation. I enjoy an inner experience, whereas she is more outwardly oriented. I like that tantric idea, though.......

Lose anyone who gives you any hassle initially, will only get worse.
End of story.

Their also into oreos, chips and dip, ice cream, anything chocolate, any ole white wine, etc.

Whow thats wonderful.