used pre

hi guys and gals. i am looking for a different pre to go with my system. i have tried 4 now, and am still looking. so far i've had cambridge audio c500 (the original pre and am using as a phono stage now),adcom gtp450(worst one), music angel tube pre(currently using), and a cayin sl-5sc. it must have a remote and dual pre-outs, and a good phono stage would be nice but willing to go with an outboard one. sound wise, i am looking for smooth with no graininess as most of my music is metal/rock that is not recorded very well. i do not care if it is tube or s.s., or what brand/country etc. i like to listen at loud levels, hence the non-fatiguing requirement. as you may be able to tell from the pre's i've already tried, my budget is south of $1000. i guess i could i could slightly stretch that if there's absolutely no other way. the rest of the system is:
-marantz cd67se
-monarchy audio 18 deluxe dac
-sonic frontiers ultra jitterbug
-goldring gr1
-classe dr8
-classe 70
-energy 22 ref conns(dr8)
-energy pro 22's(70)
-velodyne spl1200
i hear good things about the old dr pre's from classe, but no remote. (can a remote volume be retrofitted?) i seriously appreciate any advice i may get thanks a bunch, pieman