It is a great blessing to have a good father/son relationship, one which Kevin has been kind enough to share with the audio community.
There is "good mourning" and "bad mourning", meaning that some people cope with the death of a loved one well, while others do not. Kevin is showing that he will "mourn well" his father's death, as is evidenced by his memorial to him and their shared faith.
I began to read a fascinating book years ago called "FatherLoss" by Neil Chethik. I admit I made it only halfway through, but am motivated now to pick it up again (The average man reads less than one book/year after high school). It's not a directed religious work; several different world faiths and belief systems are represented among the men sharing their stories, but rather a discussion of the earth-shattering impact of the death of a man's father, as well as personal accounts of how these men coped. The book suggests that if a man does not adjust well to his father's death his entire life will be adversely effected. There are general observations in regard to the time frame of the son's age when his father passed away, i.e. 18-18-32, 33-55, etc. This book could be helpful to some.
