Dr joe - When I first read your post I immediately started to respond with my original recommendation, which was for a Shindo Aurieges. Fortunately I re-read your post and saw that you were only interested in a SS pre-amp. So why am I now mentioning the Aurieges? Well, after reading the comments by Soix above, I realized that I have the same misgivings as he does about a SS pre-amp doing everything you want. I stand by my opinion that the Levinson 380S will bring you closer to your goal than the Bryston BP-26, but like Soix, I can't think of a SS pre-amp that will do everything you want. The Aurieges will (and is a real bargain at $3K new), as will many other tube pre-amps that can be had new or used for $4K or less. Hopefully some others with more experience than me in the SS pre-amp realm can give you some ideas to consider.
Good luck!
Good luck!