Quite the merry-go-round isn't it.
It's is enlightening to know what others are using.
The only way YOU WILL KNOW is Audition some units at home,
on your gear,your room ect.A lot of audio stores will let you audition their products at home.Usually with a small deposit.
Here's another one to drive you up thewall,Torus(Bryston site)
They are also pricey.It's YOUR EARS THAT LISTEN,YOU BE THE JUDGE.