Testicle Tumor

Foxtrot, In 1980 I went to my doctor who sent me to a urologist. Dr Naga said that the testicle would have to come off and that he was 90% sure it was a cancerous tumor. He said he could operate on Friday, it was then late Monday. I hesitated but said "Let's do it" and the operation went forward. A few days after the operation I was told it was Seminoma, one of the "better" types, that would be treated with radiation. Needless to say, that was 25 years ago and I have never looked back. A positive outlook and good support of my friends was very important to me. My doctors were wonderful as I am sure yours are as well. I have suffered no ill effects from the experience and look forward to each day as being "special". I sincerely wish you well and hold to the knowledge that much has been done to treat our cancer over the past 20-30 years. My prayers are with you as you move forward. God Bless!
Jim

Foxtrot,
Like everyone I wish you the best possible outcome and a speedy recovery. And not to sound trite, but music is a great restorer of the spirit, so keep the tunes flowing.

A dear friend lost a nut to cancer many years ago. He has since fathered 4 great boys. I hope all goes well for you.

Foxtrot,

I can't really add too much to what has already been posted. I think the medical advice and the stories of "It happened to me/him/her and I/he/she is still here" are right on and very valuable.

The one thing I will add is that I commend you for posting this and seeking input and talking about it. Fellas aren't real good at that generally, and we tend to down right suck at it when it invloves anything related to our notion of manhood. Whatever the trajectory of this is, you are over the first hurdle by realizing you will do better by leaning on some people to get through it. Too often folks say "God doesn't give you anything that you can't handle." That's bull. God gives us things that we can't handle all of the time. But God also gives us friends, spouses, parents, children, relatives, and audiophiles to help us handle them.

Post back. Let us know what's going on, so we can walk with you through the struggle and celebrate the victories with you.

Jerome

My cousin was diagnosed with testicular cancer a few years ago. It turned out to be malignant, but he went through all the usual therapies and came out of it fine. My best advice is to stay positive. I know--easier said than done. But there have been studies done that say mood can directly influence one's recovery from cancer. You may have one less nut, but it can be A LOT worse. I lost both parents, two aunts, two uncles, and one friend to cancer before I turned 30. Lean on your friends and relatives for support, pray for the best, and you'll be fine. And once you recover, fire up your system, and rejoice in how much more music you have to look forward to!