This was my first time to poke my head back in and I wanted to thank all of you for your kind comments.
Stiltskin (Mark) -- I am going to purchase my mother a small, compact bookshelf all-in-one system (her request) which will include a CD player and possible a cassette player if such an animal exists. Your suggestion is an excellent one, and would be a great surprise to my Mother.
Lithojoe -- Thank you for your kind comments
Albert -- I cherish our 31-year-old friendship, and wouldn't trade it for the world. Thank you, my friend.
Goldeneraguy -- Thank you for posting your comments.
Finally, in closing this post, I had to share a couple more thoughts. We tease our Mom because she saved every greeting card, every operational manual, every cartoon...but her "packrat" mentality really paid off for me yesterday. In the deepest recesses of a closet in her garage, my brother found my precious Barbie & Skipper dolls and all their accessories. I thought these were long gone. They were in mint condition, and brought back a flood of memories. Needless to say, I became overwhelmed with emotion when I saw them. They are more than just "things" to me...they are a touchstone to my childhood.
Last night, when I tucked my Mom in bed at her new ALF apartment, I thanked her for being the "World's Greatest Packrat". I also thanked her for not tossing those dolls out all those years ago. She said, "Mary, I knew one day that you would want these, and that they would be valuable to you. Not in a monetary sense, but in a sentimental sense." Once again, Mom, you were right.
I recently told a friend that the most difficult part of aging is not about my own physical changes. I actually am proud of the wrinkles; I feel they are proof that I have lived, enjoyed life, and survived the "challenges". For me, the most difficult part has been to be an observer of my own parents' decline in health and inability to function as they have in their better years.
The Circle of Life truly does come back around. It is an honor to observe.
Stiltskin (Mark) -- I am going to purchase my mother a small, compact bookshelf all-in-one system (her request) which will include a CD player and possible a cassette player if such an animal exists. Your suggestion is an excellent one, and would be a great surprise to my Mother.
Lithojoe -- Thank you for your kind comments
Albert -- I cherish our 31-year-old friendship, and wouldn't trade it for the world. Thank you, my friend.
Goldeneraguy -- Thank you for posting your comments.
Finally, in closing this post, I had to share a couple more thoughts. We tease our Mom because she saved every greeting card, every operational manual, every cartoon...but her "packrat" mentality really paid off for me yesterday. In the deepest recesses of a closet in her garage, my brother found my precious Barbie & Skipper dolls and all their accessories. I thought these were long gone. They were in mint condition, and brought back a flood of memories. Needless to say, I became overwhelmed with emotion when I saw them. They are more than just "things" to me...they are a touchstone to my childhood.
Last night, when I tucked my Mom in bed at her new ALF apartment, I thanked her for being the "World's Greatest Packrat". I also thanked her for not tossing those dolls out all those years ago. She said, "Mary, I knew one day that you would want these, and that they would be valuable to you. Not in a monetary sense, but in a sentimental sense." Once again, Mom, you were right.
I recently told a friend that the most difficult part of aging is not about my own physical changes. I actually am proud of the wrinkles; I feel they are proof that I have lived, enjoyed life, and survived the "challenges". For me, the most difficult part has been to be an observer of my own parents' decline in health and inability to function as they have in their better years.
The Circle of Life truly does come back around. It is an honor to observe.