Am I a burning out audiophile????


...or am i simply a music lover to begin with???

Disregarding the debate that could potentially be born from the statement above, I sit here in my 18x18x8 room listening to Diana Krall's 'When I look in your eyes' through a pair of Totem Winds powered by a Krell kav-400xi and Jolida JD100a source. It sounds great, it truly does! It does so many things right and so little wrong! Why then, do I have the question in the back of my mind - 'is this system as musically engaging as my past system was?'

Tonally, it's better. It goes deeper. It's more accurate, smooth, well balanced, etc. etc. etc.

The prior system the back of my mind questions is that of the Totem Arros powered by a PrimaLuna Prologue Two with Cairn Fog source in a 9x11x8 room. If memory serves me correct - pure magic! What I thought at the time (and am wondering now) was the epidomy of emotional involvement!

Q.1 - am I only remembering the 'good times' with the prior system? (like how we photograph only the good times of our life and wax nostalgic about how great things used to be)

The move to the upgraded system was initiated by my desire to listen to more music with my wife. Today, (and last night, and the night before...) I still find myself listening by myself. Regardless of the extra chairs in larger space!

I also wanted to simplify and combine my seperate systems (5.1HT and 2-channel) into one higher-end 2-channel dual purpose system. The result is great sound, but perhaps not the most musically enagaging two-channel nor the most enveloping, impactful HT either? As a dual purpose system it performs great, but it isn't send ingtingles down my spine or have me toe-tapping like the smaller Arro system did.

Q.2 - have I gone too far??? Have I treaded into water where I have to think about the music too much to enjoy it??? Am I asking too much of a single system???

The road from system #1 to system #2 has had a lot of in-between systems that have just led to frustration and/or musical dissatifaction, but too much too get into detail here...

Q.3 - which brings us back to where I started; am I a burning out audiophile??? Am I simply thinking about this too much???

I don't know what I expect in response to this babble? I don't know if these questions are even 'real' or simply part of a rhetorical rant? Anyway, thanks for listening and feel free to post and thoughts or comments....
jh2os
As I see it, there are too many choices out there. How can anyone possibly find the "Best" system with hundred of speakers and thousands of combinations to choose from.
Secondly, each system has it's strengths. Depending on the song, volume, your mood, etc., one system could sound better than another. Change the song and the "Best" system is now something else.
It's an enigma that spending more money does not gaurantee more peace of mind. It should but it doesn't, go figure.
What worked for me is single driver. If you can live with the limitations, there aren't many choices out there. So less to decide between. Because of the inherent simplicity the differences are pretty obvious.
A second option is adding a sub to a little system like mine. A third option is a speaker which runs up to 5-10kHz and add a supertweeter like the Ling.
As for your wife listening, my girlfriend tells me my little system "Sounds really good". Women don't listen in the same way as men and what may sound good to you may not sound good to her. As on dealer recently told me "There aren't many women audiophiles out there because they hear a lot more faults on stereos that men do.". So may I suggest getting your wife involved in the auditioning process and she may gain a better appreciation of stereos and who knows, with her input you may get a better stereo than you have now.
At some point you have to admit to yourself that what you've got is pretty damn good, even if there might be something better out there. That doesn't mean that you're swearing off pursuing better / different, just that you can not worry about it constantly.

I've also found that being realistic about what my room can support and what the rest of the household will tolerate helps me forget what could be, and focus on enjoying all the music I have.
there have been many good points made above, so I don't know if this will contribute much. I find however that a great cure for my system sounding average and lacking that magic, is to leave town for a few days. When I return home, the listening sessions are always magicical once again.
I the smaller room your system was set up for nearfield listening. Is this the case in your current setup? I find nearfield listening more involving. Could this be part of the problem.
A good case for keeping the old stuff and "trying" the new before making a final decision. You can always go back and compare.