I had quite a few experiences of listening to music while in altered states of mind during my mis-spent youth. While I should have been in College, underground dance music and raves became my priority.
I was a beginner audiophile at age 12, had my life changed by music (and God at the same time) at age 18, and around age 30 started learning about high end audio.
With all that said, becoming a critical listener is number 1. Closing your eyes, clearing your mind of everything and just listening is how you will really enjoy this hobby.
About 2 weeks ago I had a 5 hour listening session with a neighbor. Both her and her husband could hear how amazing my stereo sounds in the first 30 seconds of listening. She was hooked and we listened for 5 hours. It was so cool to see her mind just being blown. There were even a few songs that she swore were remixes because she was hearing so much more musical information. By the end of our time spent listening, she understood noise floor, attack, decay, dynamic swings, imaging and soundstage and was a pro at picking up micro details.
Anyways, my point is, you can get huge amounts of enjoyment out of these high end systems if you just listen. Clear your mind of all thoughts, and concentrate on what you are hearing. Try listening to each individual instrument and then all of them together. Also, in a way, it’s helpful not to get overly critical of what you are hearing. Much of what we listen to is recorded or mastered poorly or even just mastered or mixed in a way that is not or preference.
Last thing to think about is the emotional connection. If your system draws you in and grabs ahold of your emotions your on the right track. Theres a few songs that I can play that will bring tears to my eyes no matter what mood Im in. When music, and vocals in particular, can at times become spooky or haunting then your on the right track.
Last last thing… I don’t think that Alcohol makes you a better listener. I think it dulls the senses. You’ll listen much louder. You’ll think you are hearing more but your not. Herb may change the way you perceive sounds but I find that I’ll become disinterested in listening. Coffee is good at times. I don’t want to discuss others because I don’t want to promote drug use..