I think you hit the nail on the head, the issue for many speakers is not watts @ 8 Ohms, but current delivery. It’s how well an amplifier does in the 3-4 Ohm range that’s important, especially with speakers with dual woofers as they tend to hit a low in the bass, as you point out.
Unless you are trying to shake the walls down 100W is often more than enough for most listeners.
A Luxman 509 or even a 507 for instance would probably be more than enough for you.