Meth, you suffer from standing wave, meaning you have low pressure and high pressure points at a frequency determined by your room size. Moving around till you find a sweet spot is really putting a band aid on cancer. If you listen carefully youll probably hear you have single frequency bass no matter what your playing, the full bass sound will always be around the same frequency.
You need to add low freq some sound absorption to your room. A (fairly) cheap route is to buy a few sacks of R19 from home depot and stick them into a corner. You bass will tighten up and become more natural.
Regards
Paul