Disappointing Evening


I had some dinner guest's over last evening. I had my main system warming up just in case there was some interest from them in audio. I have a second system that was playing when they arrived. It's a Bang & Olufsen BeoSound 9000 that my inlaws gave me a few years back. Well soon enough a couple of them were commenting about the good music, so I asked if they would like to hear my pride and joy system, mostly all tube gear that (IMO) looks pretty cool with all the tubes lit up and sounds way better than the B&O stuff. No interest at all in the tube system and they hovered around the B&O loving the way the glass door opened and the arm moved to each CD. Boy was I insulted, all the time, money and energy I have in my tube system!
markpao
Maybe if you had insisted that your friends just sit down and take a listen to your main rig things would have turned out differently. Maybe not. Occasionally you get the 'right' reaction. An old friend of mine is visiting for a few months and she came over. She's a music lover and she said yes when I offered to 'show off' my system. She couldn't get over what she was hearing. She went on and on and was so appreciative of the quality of it all. I had a proud audiophile moment. Some people will tell you it sounds good but theyr'e very bland and understated about it. There's no enthusiasm. Not with this friend.
I just added a third system. A Squeezebox radio with a pair of 30 year old Realistic Nova 45 headphones.

It replaced an alarm clock on the lamp table next to the bed.

Hey, the sound here is really good!

Its a sharp looking little gadget! Top notch WAF.

Ipods are pretty spiffy looking also and sound pretty good to most.

Given how relatively inexpensive and easy it is to get at least decent sound these days, I think the shock factor of a newbie seeing some of the rigs on this site would be the biggest conversation piece, more than how good the systems sound.
I remember when I was a kid, my first stereo was a Motorola all in on record player with fold out speakers.

Then, as a young teen, I got my first real stereo, for $200 an all in one Sanyo with radio, ceramic cart phono, tape, and speakers, a big step up, but still not really close to the best hi fi of teh day.

Then, finally, going into college, I got a good deal on some real hi fi, Lafayette Criterion integrated and tuner, speakers with Heil Air Motion Transformer, and a Technics belt drive table with MM Pickering cart. A true jump towards hifi. It impressed the other kids (mostly male) in my college dorm so much that they all to come into the shop I worked at then and I sold them their rigs.

Impressing anybody with hi fi has been all downhill since then. I mostly gave up a long time ago. I will show someone my stuff and give them a listen if they ask, but that's about it.
Mark
I could tell a similar story about having friends over for dinner and opening a very expensive bottle of Pinot from Oregon.. little appreciation for it.
People need to build up to things like that to understand and appreciate. The big sound stage can really intimidate new bees. Overwhelm them.
Different strokes for different folks. You just have to keep some people away from bright, shiny objects as they are too easily confused.

It never ceases to amaze me how an identical recording can sound so different going through different stereos. So much for The Absolute Sound.