95db is awfully loud to my ears so the first thing I'd do is not listen at those levels. I listen in the mid 70s db range and occasionally hit the 80s and it begins to pressurize my ears. My room is smaller than yours so I know the next thing to go are my ears and then maybe my lease. :-)
With a very efficient speaker it's possible that one of the drivers is starting to break up or strain sooner at levels you're used to listening to. My older Tonians would start to get shrill at higher volumes and they're 95db efficient. My new Clearwaves, which are 85-88db efficient never approach even a semblance of harshness at the same levels.
All the best,
Nonoise
With a very efficient speaker it's possible that one of the drivers is starting to break up or strain sooner at levels you're used to listening to. My older Tonians would start to get shrill at higher volumes and they're 95db efficient. My new Clearwaves, which are 85-88db efficient never approach even a semblance of harshness at the same levels.
All the best,
Nonoise