Cleaneduphippy:
Whatever works for a specific seller/buyer pair.
By circumstances or temperament, some people may welcome serious auditioners and the opportunity for audiophile chat, while others (or their families) may find the imposition too much. I have been in both situations.
Your solution is somewhere in between. I see no harm in proposing it in your communications, whether you are a buyer or seller.
BTW I would also consider it fair if dealers demanded an audition fee like this. That would take away the sting of demonstrating to someone who then buys online.
Whatever works for a specific seller/buyer pair.
By circumstances or temperament, some people may welcome serious auditioners and the opportunity for audiophile chat, while others (or their families) may find the imposition too much. I have been in both situations.
Your solution is somewhere in between. I see no harm in proposing it in your communications, whether you are a buyer or seller.
BTW I would also consider it fair if dealers demanded an audition fee like this. That would take away the sting of demonstrating to someone who then buys online.