I'm not sure if using the Sony receiver is going to work. Pre-out means that that jack is designed to output to a power amplifier from the preamplifier. It might work but it might be dangerous. I don't know enough to be sure, but I believe the signal will have gone through the phono stage section of the Sony, then through the pre-amplification stage of the Sony, and then it would be going through a second preamplification stage in the Cary. This doesn't sound worth it to me. Also, I think the NAD or the Rega are more than competent to amplify your cartridge. In fact, I would save that extra money and put it towards a better cartridge in the future versus worrying about a higher end phono preamp now. I used the NAD PP2 with a Dynavector 10X5 cartridge with great results. Sure I eventually upgraded, but the point is that your cartridge probably deserves the first upgrade dollars.
Good luck!
Good luck!