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For the TV's, I like LED simply because it uses 1/5 the power of plasma. I own an 820 series Sharp and like it a lot.

On the audio side, tough to find a 2 band tuner built in these days. If you can live with FM only, a good all-in-one unit is the now discontinued Linn Classik (FM, CD, amp). The newer Naim Uniqute an Uniti (spelling?) are interesting also. Both have a tuner, CD, music server and amp in one tidy little unit.

Otherwise you are looking at an integrated amp and separate tuner for each room. I'd avoid HT receivers generally, as they tend to be big and don't sound that great in comparison, plus you will be paying for a lot of stuff you don't need.

For speakers, you will likely have to go with satellites and a small sub, as Vicdamone suggests, because you will likely be running a relatively low powered amp. Lots of speaker choices, but it will largely depend on what receiver/amp you end up with.

If you go the Linn/Naim route, some speaker suggestions would be Linn Majik 109s or small Spendor or ProAc or Harbeth models.

Plasma units use far less power than they did just a couple short years ago. If you have glare issues with windows and such you may want LCD but I think thats often over stated. If you want best motion for sports and movies go Plasma to avoid motion blur or get a LCD with 240hz technology, 60hz is awful, 120hz is better but 240 is best.
Plasma offers 600hz, better colors and better black levels so if you can go Plasma for atleast the most viewed unit I would do that. Go LCD for secondary use.
Audio side is so wide open and more often then not a matter of style so I wont offer much there.

Amend Arcam recommendation,

After reading a last post dated 01-06-11, titled "AVR 300 Powers up, * seconds later, powers off," I can't recommend Arcam receivers. My recommendation was based on an in store comparison were their product displayed a pleasing audio presentation when compared to some other brands. The Arcam also lacked many of the latest CODECs I was interested in for my HT build.

In the context of the original poster's needs it seemed a sensible suggestion. It seems there are basic design issues regarding proper internal component cooling and questionable assembly materials contributing to predictable failures. I have no knowledge of any design upgrade, retrofit, or redesign of later models.