One curiosity (and I would be interesting in some opinions); I used the same, midpoint volume control setting on the pre-amp for both the SS and tube amps.The volume control setting that would be used is dependent on the gain of the amp (the ratio of voltage out to voltage in), not on the power rating of the amp. In general there tends to be some degree of correlation between amplifier gain and amplifier power capability, but the correlation is a loose one, and the relation between gain and power capability can vary widely among different designs.
The one Ancient Audio 300B amp for which I could find relevant specs is the Silver Grand Mono parallel SET, which is rated at 16 watts and 500 mv sensitivity. For its 8 ohm tap (assuming it has multiple taps) those numbers correspond to a gain of about 27 db, which is right in the ballpark of the gain of many medium powered solid state amplifiers.
Regards,
-- Al