Another possibility is a different form of passive that employs a transformer volume control. Instead of attenuating by burning off the signal in a resistor, transformer volume controls (TVC) attenuate by converting voltage to current. At lower volume levels (lower voltage and higher current), the sound seems to have more drive and vibrancy (passives tend to sound just a bit dull dynamically). To me, most TVCs are not very practical because they are stepped attenuators with too large a volume change between steps, and most are not remotely controllable.
But, there are a few exceptions. MyEmia sells TVCs made by Dave Slagle that employ autoformers. While not cheap, these offer 1 db steps and are remotely controllable. Also, they offer 7 db of gain (again converting current to volume), which might be enough gain to cure your problem. I would contact Dave Slagle at MyEmia or at his own site Intactaudio.com (a supplier to the DIY crowd). He probably can offer ideas even if his stuff might not be your solution.