Well, I sing in a couple of choruses and have done so all my life. In certain acoustics, the treble voices in our choirs can sometimes be overpowering and create the glare you're talking about in real life, even though the voices are excellent. I would not underestimate the effect that the recording acoustic would have on the sound you're describing. Do you have any recordings on the Telarc label of the Atlanta Symphony chorus under Robert Shaw? Do you hear that glare with that chorus? I generally don't get much glare from those recordings on my system, but I sometimes hear what you're describing on recordings of English choirs (the Cambridge Singers, for example) in very reverberant acoustics.