David,
You have inquired about a very personal and subjective aspect of reproduction of music for the playback in our home.
It's going to be difficult for me to add anymore than what Charles has already said but I will try.
When I judge a system for my personal interpretation of what sounds the best,most natural with reference to real instruments and voices,and also Important to me is correct Image size,I listen for the following criteria in this order.
Tone
Timbre
Texture
Overall soundstage presentation which would include Liquidity or holographics.
If my system pleases my ears in these aspects,especially the first 3 then I concentrate all my attention to the stage and judge critically to what I interpret to be believeable for a recording.
Basically If I listen to any system and the tone is to bright or to dark for me I stop right there and make changes to my system.
I'm not so critical with Timbre and Texture and generally speaking of the high level of gear represented on this thread It ends up being a hair splitting contest.If these aspects of the overall sonics sound correct and pleasing to the individual listener then I say go with what you like.
Now with all that being said,
I will bring up the absolute most important aspect for me and that would be the engagement or emotional connection with the music that I'm getting and feeling.When this connection is high I forget all about the rest of these aspects and get lost in the music and I probably couldn't even tell you if the Di speaker has 7 tweeters or 40.😃
Always remember every form of music is all about Emotion,I'm sure you know this.
I probably will always have some different gear around that at a moments notice I can change and get a slightly different flavor,fun stuff.
Here is a couple links that may help,
https://www.stereophile.com/reference/50/https://www.musical-u.com/learn/music-timbre-texture-tone/I hope any of this has helped,
Kenny.