I only do Dumb Home Theaters. And it might help if you specified a budget, whether you want to integrate existing components, speaker number and size, sub or no sub, Multichannel vs 2 channel, ...
I think he was asking about having a home theater that integrates with a "whole house automatiion system". I don't think any of us really know a good product. Home audio and theater are not really designed for a home automation system integration.
I have the below integrated into a Savant system. Pricey but I'm very happy with it. Everything is single touch on and control via app on smartphone or savant remote. Through the system you can also do HVAC, lights, shades etc.
Theater room Sony A1E 77" NAD - M17V2 NAD - M22V2 NAD - M27 OPPO- 203 4k Roku for streaming PS4 Direct tv
Family room Marantz sr6010 Sony XBR-65X850B 4k roku Samsung 4k player Direct TV Bluesound node 2
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