Erik, when I was in "mid-fi" Harmon and Bose were my favorites, but after I got into "hi-end", everything changed; meaning more objective than subjective, and I don't regret it.
I know you remember "graphic equalizers"; they were the thing in my Harmon, Bose days, but I discovered I was rearranging the music; did I want to hear the band, or be a part of the band?
Now I'm 180 degrees from what I was; I only want neutral components that will faithfully reproduce the music. What's most important is the truth of the equipment that reproduces the music; my pleasure must be derived from the music as it is, not as I want it to be.