Listening time and habits


Dear all,

I'm sure this is going to be all over the map, but I'm wondering about how folks structure their time around listening, and how you negotiate listening with partners, family, and even neighbors. 

For example, I find listening daily is difficult, though lately I've tried listening to an album side before work, which is a different kind of listening. Mostly, I save up time to just disappear into music for a whole evening. I find I need to forget the world to really listen, and that means not having to watch the clock. 

My wife likes to listen to music in the car and while doing other things. Clearly, for me, it's the opposite. 

How do you manage your music time?

Paul.
paulburnett
Long ago when I was in an apartment there were occasionally times when the close neighbors were all elsewhere and I could listen as loudly as I wanted for a couple of hours.When I lived in the city in a house and had a young family there were also times when everyone cleared out for a few hours and I could listen undisturbed.It was really a big deal and I thoroughly enjoyed those listening sessions.Like a mini vacation.
Now I'm in the boonies,kids are moved out,and I still plan a marathon listening session every week.Other than that it's headphones or casual listening as I take care of other responsibilities.
Agreed, noromance, though a little music is a pleasant start to the day. It almost has to be a mini-vacation so I can feel really free to dive into my collection. There is a flow to moving from one piece to the next, a queue starting to stack up in my head, that is impossible with just 20 minutes, or even an hour. 

Neighbors have never been an issue where I live now, but I (mostly) kept respectable hours and volumes during the apartment years. I do pay attention to the forums about how audiophiles manage neighbors, especially with the right gear. Elizabeth, I believe, has talked about the merits of her Maggies in her condo. Puts the music in the room, not through the walls. 

Jtcf, I really like the idea of planning a regular weekly listening session. Difficult to manage on my part, but it's a goal worth striving for!
I built the wife a killer ht system as she likes tv more so she is happy in that room.
Leaves me free to retreat to my room and forget the rest of the world exists and relax for a good few hours each evening.

One advantage of non sub division 1.5 acre lot and daughter at university..
Oh and it helps that generally I HATE people.......

I find that if I play music during the day , which I do a lot, it tends to be more background. Even though it is still good I am not enjoying it or revelling in it as I do at night while sprawled in my big chair.
Since I am now retired, I have a lot of time to listen to my systems.  From around 11 in the morning , until 3-4 in the afternoon, I am listening to my main rig in the living room.  Usually around 4pm, my wife likes to watch Ellen on TV, so I retire to my man cave upstairs which has another system and I listen to it and surf the web as my computer is also in that room.  I average 4-5 hours a day on the main rig and another 3 hours on my other system.  Life is good.  
Like you , my listening time is at a premium, I share the room my system is in with my family as it is our living room. My system is set up in near field and is the nicest system I have ever owned, will probably be my last system as I am 68 and retired and have spent the last 10 years getting to where I am, so no more shopping except when something might fail. My listening sessions are late night and early into the morning and so rewarding and anything less will not satisfy that need. An album side or listening to a CD while doing something around the house will not satisfy the need of playing 6 or 7 albums in a row and just relaxing, getting lost in the music, no casual listening here will satisfy that need, so I feel you man. I have put together a very good headphone system in my office, after adding phono and a good tube phone stage to it I find my self up their listening quite a bit lately. BTW, great post. Enjoy the music