This is all coming down to being a great case of helicopter parenting amped up by a surfeit of hubris.
You haven't indicated who you are talking too.
But...
Tell me: Who in this thread has been admitting "I don't know the asnwer. I haven't decided yet. I'm still looking at the evidence."
Who has admitted to the "other side": You could be right in reporting what you hear.
Is this admission of fallibility, tentativeness, and allowing the other person could be correct coming from millercarbon? Rodman?
I'd hate to go have a meal with some of you as you'd ruin the experience. 😄
Not me. I'm nuts about food, restaurants, fine dining etc, and I dine out regularly with a large variety of family, friends and acquaintances. Just this weekend I had a 14 course tasting menu meal with a pal at the best restaurant in the city (not something I can regularly afford) that I'm still dreaming about. Had tons of fun talking food with the rest of the diners at the table.
Most attempts to psychoanalyze other people on a forum fail because, especially when we find they disagree with our view, the impulse is to characterize them in a way that makes us feel superior.
Personally, I'm sure millercarbon, rodman, and most others here are terrific people when not engaged in audiophile turf battles, and they are likely plenty smarter than I am overall.