@erik_squires
...Meaning, it's' good to set up your system so that it's in the middle of the lane for the music you listen to, at the volumes you listen to. If you like rock or heavy metal, get speakers for that, instead of buying neutral and jacking up the bass and treble.
But, once you know where the middle of the road is, your tone controls act as subtle adjustments. Also, tone controls can be lifestyle tools. :) Need to keep the speakers too close to the rear wall? Turn the bass down.
+1, good advice.
And, I was anti-tone controls for decades until I heard some really good preamps/integrated amps with them.
A good friend and total tube nut with several custom built boutique tube preamps recently picked up a nice tube preamp with quality tone controls. He absolutely loves it. He uses it for (-1) tuning of high frequencies (mainly for streamed content) when listening to older/bad recordings of tracks he enjoys listening to. Says it expanded his listening library. "can listen to anything now".
Now it's his favorite preamp in his tube preamp collection.